Being a mature adult involves recognizing that much of what you re-create in your marriage and as parents has to do with unresolved issues with your own parents and family.

• 作为一个成熟的成年人要意识到在你的婚姻里你再创造的东西的方方面面，作为父母还不得不处理跟你自己的父母和家庭的各种没解决的问题。