DO NOT tell her with words how you feel or act like a suck-up and buy her gifts and dinners on the first date because you will come off way too eager and wussy.

• 千万不要用语言告诉她你的感受或表现的像个奉承者：在第一次约会时给她买礼物，请她吃晚餐。因为这会使你看上去对她太有渴求和懦弱。