Eileen Chang had a comment that best explains the subtlety of pre-destined relationship: at the right time and right place you meet no one other than him or her .

• 正如张爱玲的那句话，于千万人之中遇见你所遇见的人，于千万年之中，时间无崖的荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，正巧赶上了。