It took extensive work (and many tears) before she was able to see that the unparalleled sexiness she attributed to him was in fact the power of her own sexual desire.

• 她花了好多功夫（还有许多眼泪）才看清，其实她赋予他身上的这种不平衡的性关系事实上只是她自己对于对于性的渴望。