Actually this has happened to me when my Dad tried to convince me to go to DDM before, I finally went to DDM not because my parents pressure, I went there because I saw my parents CHANGES.

• 以前，我的父亲想要说服我到法鼓山时，我和他确实有沟通上的问题，后来我进入了法鼓山，不过，不是因为父母的施压，而是因为我看到了父母的转变。我想我们应该先自我内省方能外求。正如同师父所说：我们要先内观，才能把我们的本性示人。