On the other hand, they are inclined to allot their time and energy inappropriately, for they may have to spend the lion s share of their time earning their own living.

• 第二，父母应该给他们提供帮助。开始的时候孩子都需要帮助，离开了父母的帮助他们会失去方向。第三，父母应该让孩子做决定，以此来锻炼他们处理问题的能力。当孩子成功或失败时他们都需要鼓励。